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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??

If he really loves you, he wouldn't have done all of those things. Keep that in mind.

But if you REALLY TRULY love him, you need to have a face to face, one on one conversation with him about te last 9 months. Tell him how badly he has hurt you, but how much you love him and you want this to work. Make sure he understands everything you are saying. Make him respect you and your emotions. Otherwise it will all happen again.

If you both love eachother, and really try hard to make it work, then it will. Just have a good, long, genuine talk. Hope I helped! And good luck.

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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(Rating: 5) thankss! iv done that tho n he promised he never would do it again and then i found out he lied after he promised it and hes like i havnt lied since then i swear. . .its really hard to trust him!
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