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Q: okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!
Well can i say you sound like a really cool girl to start with. And i dont want to give you advice on how to cchange yourself; and not because im nasty. But because if the guy really likes you and is as nice as you say, he wont want you to change. Or should i say expect you 2! The best thing to do is talk to the guy and be yourself. The only thing anyone can ever ask of you is 4 u 2 b yourself and thats it. Jus talk to him and maybe even flirt a little and tell him that you like him. He may even like you MORE because you're into some of the same things he likes.
Im sorry that i didnt fully answer youre question but seriously; dont change who you are. I bet youre great the way you are right now so why change? Idf people cant accept you for the person you are and expect you to change then theyre not worh it because they dont care about you!
Hope i helped,
Anthony

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Anthony_d
Well where to start realy? Im a 16 year old fun outgoing guy. Im always up for a laugh and can take a good joke. I like to help people because i dont like when people are sad or unsure and for me to help them is a pleasure. If you want to know me better than the brief insight you have 3-4 ways of contacting me. I will always b on call too help
Peace out... Anthony

btw why dont airplane toilets have windows? And why are high rised buildings with with toilet windows foggy???
Is there an epidemic of the worlds most determined pervert?? Peace!

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