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Member Since: July 11, 2005
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Last Update: July 24, 2005
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Hey Everyone! Well I went to a party in New York City a couple of weeks back and met an amazing looking guy. We hooked up at the party and really enjoyed our time spent together. After the party we promised to keep in touch and i gave him my number, and he called me the next day. He decided to come visit me in Jersey with a couple of his friends later that week. While we were talking he told me that he was 20 and i'm only 15(meaning im illegal). He was a little surprised by our age difference since i definently look a lot older than i appear to be. After meeting him @ my house I had to leave for residential camp for a week in order to be a C.I.T(Counseler in Training) While I was gone we talked on the phone and found out that we had a lot in common such as: Our birthdays are on the same day>How strange is that! As soon as I got home I went on his Profile to check out what he'd been up to. I found out that he'd been writing a lot of comments to different grls saying that they were "Hott" and "Thumbs up." I'm a very jealous person and I hate having to share my guy with anyone. Even though were not together "officially" I really have feelings for him~ The problem is our age difference and the fact that sometimes he doesn't call me to see how i am because he's busy clubbing and doing god knows what. My ? is do i get over this guy or should i do something to make him understand how i feel?? I'd really like advice about what I should do. Pleae comment and advice away. Xo THanks!! (link)
Stay away from this MAN, and I do mean MAN. Aside from the obvious, he can get into serious legal troubles messing with you. Five years is nothing, but it is something now, you are both in different places right now, and really can't understand one another. What will you talk about with him, your on-goings in highschool, and he'll think you're immature. Don't try to grow up too fast, you can only be 15 or 16 (young) once in your life. Enjoy your youth now with someone whom can truly relate and experience this with you. Why do you think he's clubbing all the time, he's getting older and doesn't want to deal with the reality of adulthood.


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Hey. Thnx so0o0 much for your answer..I really do appreciate it> I guess I never really understood that the age difference was that big a deal. Thnx for opening up my eyes to see the reality of the situation. Xo




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