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Member Since: July 11, 2005
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Last Update: July 24, 2005
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ok so today my dad invoted me and my bro to go the the batting cages. I went for fun and plus i love baseball. SO i was doing awesome on hitting the baseball and everything but my dad never even payed attention to me. Then he was like why dont you try the softball. and i didnt want to but he made me anyways. But it serioucly screwed up my baseball hitting and i sucked at softball and he was encouraging me there. But like i said he never watched my hitting the baseballs... he was totally ignoreing it. Is he one of those dads that thinks girls cant do sertain sports? i mean i hate softball... but its like he doesnt give me a chance and theres no way im a girly girl... plz help!! sorry that its so long.. (link)
Old habits are hard to change and your Dad probably doesn't mean anything bad by his suggestions or ideas. Just talk to him and tell him what you're all about, what you like, dislike, etc...Either way don't feel to bad if he still doesn't see things or understand where you're coming from. You aren't going to change what you think or feel because of him and you should expect him to do the same. Just remember that you do what you do because you like it and not for your father's approval.


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thanks that helped alot :D




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