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Q: ok i have a really big problem. i wear a training bra and any tank tops, short sleeve shirts, or really light fabriced shirts i wear, my bra shows ALOT. and also the even bigger problem is on tank tops, my bra has a higher up arm hole so you can like see the bra alot on the arms. this has stopped me from buying new clothes, and i always try to look for the clothes that cover me up the most!! im so mad cauuse I just want to be confident and free about myself and not worry about this! its all i think about. yes, dont say ask my mom cause she always asks "well why are you being so mad, whats the problem" whenever i pass the opportunity to buy a perfectly nice shirt!its cause im too embarresed to tell her about it. the only reason i have a bra is cause my mom bought me 2 old navy ones like a long time ago and they like hardly fit me.please dont make fun of me, i really want to feel good about myself and not have me bra practically in full view. HOW CAN I SOLVE THIS ANNOING PROBLEM??????
I think you should try talking to your mom. She's not going to make fun of you or anything. Your mom can't read your mind and its easier if you talk to her now because later on in life your going to have tons of questions for your mom. I know its hard to ask or tell your mom personal things, but she's going to really helpful. I used to have a similar problem and I just ask my mom went we were at the mall if we could get a new bra for me. For the summer time you should buy tank tops with a built in bra. Hope this helps

-Manda

omg. thx! today i finnally decided to tell my mom and she helped so much. my problem is 100 percent solved. thx!

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Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

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