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hey im emily and i am 14 years old....i love my bf very much and have a pretty good life ...most of the time...ok now i g2g now so bye

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Well okay, I've seen my boyfriend twice in my whole life. I met him like 2-3 weeks ago. And then we met up again at some fireworks like a week ago. He asked me out there. I didn't wanna say no though because like I was like hmm what the heck, Ill give him a chance. So the day after he asked me out. He went away for two weeks*he comes back this coming Sunday* and he calls like 3 times a day. He kinda gets annoying though and everyboy that knows him thinks he's annoying too. Also he is a jerk at times. Like he'll make fun of me and my music and stuff. But i noticed he has a really sweet side underneath it all. No one else knows about this sweet side of his. So when I tell them, they think im crazy. Another thing is that he cant even say "I love you!" When he says it, it just doesn't sound like he means it. Well.. i guess I love him, but it's just hard ya know? I have no clue what to do. So please help.

P.s. To add on to this all, he's friends with my x-bf and my x-bf wants us all to hang out but whenever me and my x are together we're all like close and kinda act like we're goin out. because I love him still *he broke up with me because I kinda cut because of him* and he apologized for it and said it was a mistake. But it's kinda late now.. i dont knwow.... we're all gonna hang out when my bf comes back. But im afraid its gonna be weird. Please help me.

Sorry this is sooo effin' longg.

this sounds very furmilliar...lol ok i have been in your place too....and what you might need to do is tell yor bf that you need to take a break to get to know each other...now i am not sayin you cant ever talk to him again u need to if you really like him so you can see is he would make a good bf.....and as for the ex boy friend...i dont think it would be a very good idea to have you all to gather bcause it seems you might still have feelings for him and you definetly had feeling if you cut when you went out wit him(dont worrie been tere too...it gose away eventually) soo ya....i hope i helped....bye

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(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot. I like knowing I'm not the only one.
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