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Q: Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO
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I'm going through that right now and I'm slowing moving on. Moving on is the best thing to do and its okay to still care about him because you guys are friends. Maybe as time goes by you two can get to know each other more and that will help move your friendship to a relationship. He's making a good choice of not using you and he doesnt want to mess anything up. Deep down I bet he does like you, but he just doesnt want to regret anything and doesnt want to make you regret anything. Its the summer so you should try to get out more and meet more people. It can be a way to put him aside and a way to have more friends to get to know. I'm trying to get closer to the guy I like, but if things dont change than its okay and its just not meant to be. Hopefully this helps
-Manda
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Very good advice.. thanks alot !! xO
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Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site.
Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Quincy, Massachusetts Occupation: Student Age: 21 Member Since: July 10, 2005 Answers: 174 Last Update: April 19, 2007 Visitors: 10242
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