Member Since: July 5, 2005
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Last Update: January 24, 2006
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Alright. I've been dating my boyfriend for over ten months and we've started to have a lot of problems. Around the six month marking period we starting getting into a lot of arguments and got upset with eachother easily. This has been going on for the past three or four months. He's in a different state for a couple of weeks and I usually get to talk to him, but for some reason this trip is different. I've talked to him maybe 30 minutes in total in a week or so. So I went to a party today and I met a guy that I had seen during drumline camps and stuff. He invited me along with a bunch of other drumline people to come over to his house. We got to talking and stuff and he texted me while we were watching fireworks with everyone if I wanted to hang out with him sometime, that'd be fun. So, I texted him when I got home and told him that'd be fun. The thing is IDK what to do. I don't know if i can go on much longer with my current boyfriend the way things are going. This other guy is dropping hints like crazy that he wants to know me better. "I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year, so yeah" and so on. please help. (link)
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It sounds like you already know what you want to do but are afraid of letting go, which is perfectly normal. If things are difficult with your current boyfriend, you need to decide if its worth carrying on with him, especially with rarely seeing or hearing from him. Often in a relationship both parties know that its not meant to be, but are both concerned about hurting their partner and themselves by ending it. Deep down I am sure your boyfriend feels the same way as you do about the situation, and you would be both happier splitting up. However, i STRONGLY advise you do not do anything with this new flame until you are completely seperated from your current boyfriend. It is insulting and unfair to him to go behind his back like that. Also, before you rush into a relationship with this new guy, decide if thats really what you want. Perhaps you were not ready for a relationship yet and thats why things are not working out with your current boyfriend?
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Wow. Thank you. I just broke up with him last night, and I'm not going to consider this new boy for a while
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