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a few days ago my best friend(a girl)asked if i wanted to go to the movies.i said sure and i decided to invite my boyfriend to come along too.he has done things with us before but never said what he said to me.he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like my friend and he never has he was just too afraid to tell me.now i am really upset because my best friend is upset. we cant do things together nemore. i am really close to both of them and now i cant even talk about them near each other because i know they dnt like it even if they dont say nething.what should i do?

hm. your in a really tough situation. you should sit both of them down and talk to them! you can't make them like each other, but if your friend wants to be you best friend then she'll have to at least act like she likes him. and if your boyfriend doesn't like your friend then yall won't be hangin out togther. make him and her at least talk about this. ask them both what they hate about each other. maybe whatever it is they don't like, that person wont do or say it in front of the other. i kno it seems like im saying they both need to change a lil bit but im not! im just sayin to keep them both happy they need to act different or whatever. i hope i helped!

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