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Hi,My name is Quinn...i like to skate and i love music im a pyro and...ive been through alot and I always help my friends cept im never helped...so i decided to open up a cloumn to help everyone trust me i can help
Gender: Male
Location: New York
Occupation: skating
Age: 13
AIM: xAutumnsAshes21x
Member Since: June 30, 2005
Answers: 17
Last Update: July 7, 2005
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(i'm 14/F and so is the guy)
This guy i met earlier this year (he went on a school trip to Paris that i went on too) , asked me to dance at the end of the school year dance, and so we danced three times. in the days following he and i talked on the phone and my friends kept telling me that "you like him so much" and "you two are so gonna go out." well sure enough he asked me out. I wasn't sure if i really liked him... but i said yes. a couple days after he went to San Diego, and i went to summer camp so i didnt see him for about 2 weeks. the first week i talked to him on the phone, but our conversations were just so dead... and i didnt think i liked him anymore. I decieded that when we were both in town we'd see a movie or sumthing with friends and if i really didnt feel anything i would break up with him. well we are both back. and i REALLY dont like him. i dont need to hang out with him to realize that. the only thing that has kept me from breaking up with him is that i hate to hurt people's feelings. I know he still likes me, and i'm his first girlfriend and all. i know i can't pretend like this forever... but I just don't quite know what to say.. or how to minimize how much his feelings are hurt.

HELP! thanks much (link)
uhm...the longer you wait the longer its going to hurt him so you should break up with him soon real soon...tell him...that tits over theres no other guy in your life and that its not him or you your just not feeling it our onversations are dead and theres nothign going on between us

hope it works...

sincerly Quinn


Rating: 5
thanks for some good advice. I didnt have to use it though. lol i broke up with him, and he didnt ask any questions or anything! thanks again




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