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this year i have lost alot of friends for things that are confusing me. 1) i lost 2 frinds because of the way i eat (i put ketchup on chick'n) and because they said i talked alot about my family.
2) i lost a friend because her friend walked all over me and she never did anything to stop her/because she keept secrets from me about cutting herself but told everyone else and mad them promise not to tell me even though i was her best friend(at least thats what she said) 3) i lost 2 friends because of something someone else did! they blamed me even though i appologized for what happened. isnt that alot of friends to lose in such a sort period of time? what am i doing that is driving away all my friends? should i change myself? please help!!! ill tell u everything that happened!!
you're probably not going to like what i'm about to say, but if they were willing to not be your friend because of the way you eat,because of what another friend did to them, or whatever #3 was.. then they weren't true friends. Don't change yourself.. that's the worst thing you can do. Just... get involved in local activities... like something at a church or something inside your school like a club or something. Get yourself out there and let people see how much of a personality you are... and... you have to be a friend to get a friend... if you see someone having a bad day at school or something... then make their day and sit with them at lunch or just encourage them or something..
HOpe it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey~
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yea good advice im already in alot of clubs and marching band so thatll work !!!
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