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hey! im carly and i am 13 years old! i live in ventura, california and i love it! i love longboarding, volleyball, golf, dance, tennis, shopping, i can go on for hours! i really appreciate you asking me for advice, and i sure hope i can help some of you guys out!

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I have the first symptoms of an eating disorder (yes this can be in Mental Health, it's a mental problem not a physical problem) and I'm really worried

I might sound crazy right now but there's this constant battle in my head. One part of me is saying not to do it that I should go and eat and the other is saying no! don't eat it's not worth getting fat.

I have no one I could talk to and except for parents and they would go crazy.
Ughh It's driving me crazy! I don't want to go and eat for then to realise I shouldn't have done and then go and binge and bring it all back up. Please help me.

ok, so let me tell you what can happen if you stop eating:
a.) your body will shutdown which will put you in a hospital and make you VERY sick
b.) you will become very weak because your body has nothing to digest
c.) and i am sure you parents will FLIP OUT if they find out what your doing!
now do you really want all those things to happen to you hun? i say that you need to start eating again, but lay off all the junk and start eating healthy! starving is definitely NOT the way to lose weight, that could only make you lose your life! just start doing pushups and situps in your room every day and maybe even start an activity to keep you in shape! i really hope you start eating again because i dont want anything bad to happen to you. just remember what your doing is very dangerous. i hope you keep my advice in mind! good luck!

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(Rating: 3) Thank you but if you read properly I can't help it. It's a mental problem I can't just force myself to eat it's too hard.
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