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Well im not big on this "me" deal...but i guess im very understanding so i hear and like giving advice though i will tell you when not to take it to heart. I dont get over things very well i dont hold grudges but i dont get over things fast. I live for my friends, family and michael. Music is my world. I am currently agnostic. I love hugs "huggle whore" kisses are fun to. I adore the rain and i am a pyro. I love the beach and the sunrise at the beach and the full moon on the water. Well now that i sound it i will admit it i am a hopeless romantic. I think thats enough anything else just ask.
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i have no idea what to do. my boyfriends friend (Karly)was getting in the way i talked to her and set her striaght.(we r in a lone distance realtionship) and now one of the other girls (katie)that did like him drug her self and died on his porch. the other friend of his who was a guy which he was so closed the used to do everything together found out the girl kaitie (who drug herself) and took a guy and killed himself. i have no idea what to do about my boyfriend he is really depressed and he thinks it is his fault i dont know why he does. i am scared he is going to do soemthign stupid and hurt himself. and know him and his sister want me to email Karly and talk to her make her feel better , but i dont want to do this because she slept with my boyfriend 5 months ago while he was drunk.. some one please help me!if i email her what should i say?? i need to do something i cant sit her and listen to my boyfriend tell me "if i dont email u back.. u will no it is becuase i have died of sadness in my sleep. Me.. The boy who is sitting in a coner crying... the bastrd, remember me? " please help me!
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Wow.. unfortunatly all you can do is be the "friend" in grilfriend. continue your supportive nature. if karly is a really good friend of his.. then she needs to be yours for the time being.. you can be the bigger person and will know what to say if you know what she means to him. If she means nothing to him then maybe you can just be a bigger person and just help to help. Life is rough and yea it sucks but might i suggest therapy... its not scary and its all confidential... it just might help if you both went.. hope all gets better and your troubles fade... good luck and stay strong..


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