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Member Since: June 22, 2005
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Last Update: June 22, 2005
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When i was younger my dad used to beat me with anything and yes sometimes i deserved and sometimes i never anyway. Now if anyone talks about there dad or people hiting people i get all red and i panic and i just want to be out of that conversation but i dont want people knowing or wondering why i get like this so how could i change. anyone help please (link)
Well first of all dose your dad still hit you? If he dose maybe you should try confronting someone you trust with this. It's not a good thing for your dad to hit you like that, there's no reason for anyone to abuse their child, or anyone. If he dosen't hit you anymore, and it still is bothering you now, which it obviously is, maybe you could go visit a conselor because they are good at helping people get through tough situations like that. And when people start talking about abuse maybe you can say something to change the conversation. Its okay to think about that because after all it did happen to you. And if you want to help people that have been in that same issue you could go to your city cps and volenteer and talk with kids that have been through the same thing and you can even hear their stories and you may find it comforting knowing other people have been in your shoes, make it through and go on with their lives and just think about whats happening now, and not in the past. Just remember to stay strong no matter what. Hope this helps!


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