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Q: ok, well all my friends have secrets. Everyone does.. right? well i dont know why but EVERYONE tells me their problems and secrets, sometimes it can be something really small that i can stand like "i like _____" but sometimes they're REALLY big like "i've been raped! dont tell anyone!". Now i'm really popular when it comes to friends so i'm holding ALL of THEIR secrets! one of these days i'm gonna combust and tell everyone all these secrets. I want to be there for my friends, but i dont want to go crazy holding everyone thought, secrets, and personal problems. What do i do?!
What you should do is write it down in a diary. You won't have to show it to anyone, and the stress is on paper instead of inside of you. Hide it somewhere really clever that nobody would think of. And DON'T bring it to school. If there are secrets that you know that will possibly involve physical and emotional scarring or harm, then tell an adult right away. You're letting the abuse go on if you don't tell anyone about your friend.


thanx a lot! Everyone else said the same thing "be happy they trust you" but they didnt answer my problem, but you did! thanks so much!

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