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*Things That Make The Girl Smile*
����¯�¿�½������¤ laughing until my sides hurt with my best friends
����¯�¿�½������¤ Sleeping in a tent in the summer time!
����¯�¿�½������¤ Rainy Dayssssss
����¯�¿�½������¤ Warm Blankets
����¯�¿�½������¤ Lounging on the couch and watching baseball
����¯�¿�½������¤ i like to have Lemonade stands. theyre fun
����¯�¿�½������¤ I like to take candle lit bubble baths every now and then
����¯�¿�½������¤ I like to sing in the car as loud as i can - but only when IM driving
����¯�¿�½������¤ ����¯�¿�½������¤ Fire works and hot dogs on the fourth of july!!!!
����¯�¿�½������¤ Decorating Christmas Trees
����¯�¿�½������¤ Drinking Egg nog by the fire on X*mas
����¯�¿�½������¤ The glow of christmas paper from the lights
����¯�¿�½������¤ Making Snow Angels
����¯�¿�½������¤ Carving Pumpkins with the Fam. on halloween
����¯�¿�½������¤ Building Sandcastles at the Beach
����¯�¿�½������¤ Tanning
����¯�¿�½������¤ Picnics!
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����¯�¿�½������¤ Rolling down HUUGEEE steep hills
����¯�¿�½������¤ KITTEENNSS and small little puppies
����¯�¿�½������¤ Water Balloon Fights *HELL YES*
����¯�¿�½������¤ Church
����¯�¿�½������¤ Dying Easter Eggs
����¯�¿�½������¤ Prom Dresses
����¯�¿�½������¤ Hot Chocolate and Marshmellows at a football game when its freezing cold
����¯�¿�½������¤ Late Night Phone Calls
����¯�¿�½������¤ Sleep overs!!!!!
����¯�¿�½������¤ the color *PiNk*
����¯�¿�½������¤ Chicken Noodle Soup!
����¯�¿�½������¤ Building Snow Men
����¯�¿�½������¤ Journals
����¯�¿�½������¤ black and white pictures. i love to take them. i have tons.
����¯�¿�½������¤ Music is my boyfriend
����¯�¿�½������¤ I write. i love it. if you dont? too bad.
����¯�¿�½������¤ If you lie? you are done.
����¯�¿�½������¤ i dont like girls. they are annoying.
����¯�¿�½������¤ Tall boys. theyre hawt.
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E-mail: x0strawberrywine@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: plainfield <3 (a suburb near the chicago IL area)
Occupation: Hostess at applebees.
Age: 16
AIM: x0strawberrywine
Member Since: June 13, 2005
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okay so there's this girl i've found myself quite infatuated with. and things seemed to be going jim dandy and the world seemed to be turning right for once. and then to my shock and dismay it comes out that she has an eating disorder. she refuses to eat, refuses to do anything but excersize and sip water. and she is slowly killing herself with this. i try to tell her that it's not good. i try to tell her of the damage it can do to her. and i try to tell her that it hurts me too (it can send me to tears.. and i never ever cry) and i try all that i can to let her know that it's terrible but nothing will ever work. i feel so useless and worthless and like she's gonna slip through my fingertips and i wont be able to save her. and well i really have no idea what to do or where to go. and i need some help from somewhere in order to help her. this is not good. yet she feels that it will make her feel better about herself. i just don't understand how slowly killing yourself makes you feel better. agh this is so saddening. someone please help me, somehow.
i used to suffer from an eating disorer as well, so maybe i can help you understand her a little bit more. when she looks in the mirror - she doesnt see what you see. she dosnt see that sehs probably thin and gorgeous. the reflection that she sees is honestly just fat. and she thinks the only way to get skinny is to not eat. because i gurantee she has tried dieting, but because of the sickness - she doesnt see it working when she looks in the mirror. so th best way is to cut out food all together. she feels guilty when she eats and this makes her feel better about her self because it makes her feel proud that she has will power and control. it sounds silly but its true. sadly, theres not much that you can say to her, that will cur her or make her start eating again. you need to tell someone of this. she may get very angry with you at first, but its the right thing to do, and once shes better she will thank you. i did a speech and poster board about eating disorers. if you want me to send you some pictures and facts that you can show her, things that will happen to her. just email me and i will. i felt compelled to write this because "helping you" said something very ignorant that if i knew that perosn i would probably slap them in the face she is not "Doing this for attention" it is a real disease. and i really admire you for caring so much about her. anyway i hope this helped you and i have some really great things that you can show her.
x0strawberrywine@yahoo.com jsut email me for them.
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hmm, i think i'll shoot you an e-mail. i really am out of ideas on this but i do love this girl and i want to help her.
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