I am such a person to stress over anything you can ask any of my friends and they will tell you that I have been through about everything that you can imigne! Please don't be imbarresed about the way you look or the way that god made you. I have a friend who is obssed with her ears..She says that they are too big?!?! She dosen't even like to go swimming becasue her ears are too big!! I told her to be herself and that is all that she needs to do to fit in!
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I am a homeschooled girl, I'm turning 15 in about two months. I am doing this program for middle schoolers, where I go and pick up tons of work each month. Apparently, theres so much, that its hard cramming it all in a month, but I manage to get it done the very beggining of the next month, meaning I turn it in late. This happens, because either I didn't have parents take me because they were gone, or I wasn't done. Most of the time it was just not going on time. I expected a lot from myself when I was in public school, my grades were always in a high range. But now, I am failing three classes. Ever since I saw my grades, I have been feeling guilty for eating, sleeping, or doing anything I want because I shouldn't deserve to do what I want. I am so full of stress, I think that maybe another reason. I see a therapist that takes both of my parents sides, and my parents are divorced, but they still fight. But, I'm not going to drown myself in excuses because I've managed to do well in the past. There are lots of other stressful things going on, but I am just really scared that I'm going to get held back. I havn't finished the month of May, I tried to last night, but those thoughts of being a failure took over and kept me from concentrating. I have no idea what to do with the present work, but I do have goals for high school, I might be staying home again. Could anyone share some advice that could help me get my stress out and my future thoughts in?
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I am such a person to stress out about anything and I kinda know how you feel.First you need to concider...Are my grades falling because I am so stressed out or is it because I am home schooled? If it is because of stress then you need to tell which ever parrent that you live with or a theropest. They can help you with this. I got help from a doctor and now I fell so much relif. I have always made straight A's until this year and this year there was just too much and I started haveing panic attacks whic really scard me. So I got medcation which helped so verry much! Maybe that will help with the stress of haveing to get it all done.About the home school part...Maybe you are not tryiing your best anymore because so many things are on your mind and because unlike public school you don't have other perople there to encourage you or friends to be there everyday. If you think that being homeschooled is the problem then you should really talk to a parrent about this. All you have to do is tell them that you would like to go back to public schools becuase it would relieve alott of stress and that it would help your grades out alott! I really hope I helped and please don't feel guilty for have a life!!Eating, Sleeping, Watching t.v, or talking on the phone or internet are all the parts of liveing a normal life and they shouldent intrupt with your school work but they should me done!
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Thanks, I appreciate the support. I am thinking about going back to public school.
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