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I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!
Well, it might just be a thing that is with guys. Maybe he doesn't like to pursue women who are older than him. Perhaps he feels incredibly intimidated about some quality that you possess. A quality that he may yet adore. You should know, that guys can say and act all sorts of ways. Especially if this particular guy is good when it comes to flirtation. I'm not trying to compare him to others, but I want you to realize that he may have led you on. So, I think you should ask him why he said that he couldn't have a girlfriend when he told you in the car that he does have a girlfriend. If he lies, then he's no good. I don't think you want a liar. Then you'll have to move on . Yeah I know :easier said than done. You just really have to try if he lies . Because believe it or not, you may just deserve better and you're not seeing it. So , I hope I was some sort of help and good luck. You'll never know the full truth if you don't ask him.You're just feeling pressured and a bit insecure. Once you find out the truth though, you should feel and act a lot better around him. Especially when you acknowledge such truth.
(Rating: 5) ^_^ thanks for the help!