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I am open minded and try to be as tactful and honest as possible. When looking at a question I attempt to understand all perspectives so that I can give the best possible solutions. I think that anonymity is best when answering questions, so I leave out most of the details about me. I really would like to help! I appreciate all feedback, so please let me know what you think. Thanks,
Calamityz

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ok i have this friend and he is gay but i didnt kno till the other day he didnt tell me i cought him wit a boy and well u kno what happend then... but i really need 2 kno what i should do should i be his friend? or should i tell him that im not his friend no more b/c hes gay?

Your friend probably has not told many people becuase he is afraid that he will end up with no friends. You know his secret and probably found out before he wanted you to so if you are a true friend then make sure that his secret is safe. Many pwople would him as a friend, but they are simply exhibiting a narrow minded attitued towards the situation, proving that they are only confused and scared by something that they do not understand. He is still your friend, and is probably confused by these feelings himself, but he is the same person inside. If you want to be his friend then stick by him and rasure him that you are his friend, will keep his secret, and will stick by him. If/ when he becomes openly gay he will need his good friends to support him.

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(Rating: 5) thanx and yea i will stay bye him unless he trys 2 git me 2 do somethin
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