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Q: i am 20 and preganat with my second child judt told my boyfriend i am pregnant last night and he told me to get a abortion what do you think about that? when i was fertile i told him i was and not to cum in me but as you can tell he did it anyway and i asked him are you sure about what you doing he said yeah. do you think i should break up with him cause he doesn't want to face up to his responsibilty? then on top of that right after my son turned two his mom had a bad stroke and now she is in the nursing home and he doesn't go see her and he said he doesn't because he doesnt like seeing her like that dont you believe that is wrong? i just started going to see her just me and my son and i told her i am pregnant and everything is okay she is going to do fine and i will visit her more often. the real problem is i think my boyfriend is cheatin i ask him and he says no and ask ,me to put hickies on his necks but i foumd his boxers and it looked like he had sex with someone on thet period i am gon ask him about it do you tthink i am wrong for qestiong him about his where abouts and other things? or does that sound like ii am insecure because he has cheated on me in the past and i aint trynna catch nothin.do you think havin a friendly conversation with the opposite sex is cheatin? if you can please answer these questions and have a nice day thanks once again
I'm sorry if I sound rude, I'm not trying to be, but if you didn't want to get pregnant why didn't you use protection? And why aren't you using it now when you think he may be cheating on you?

No, having a conversation with the opposite sex is not cheating. And it is entirely possible that he doesn't like seeing his mother because he feels bad.

Whether or not he is cheating on you now, there are some problems within your relationship that need to be addressed. You need to talk to him, if not for yourself, then for the child you now carry.

Ilsewin

i was on the patch but it was the week free week and was afraid so i just figures i was okay until i seen i neve did come back on my period

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