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Okey, so i dont really know what i need help with, i just needed to talk to someone. Im soo sick of appearance being everything! Last summer, i got a makeover at a beauty salong..and the week after that i met a couple of friends that i hadn't seen for a while..
And now, im gonna see them again..and they've told everyone they know that im coming and that im really hot and stuff..so everyone is gonnna be expecting me to be gorgeous!! And im really not, i wont afford going to that beauty salong again :S and ive gotten fatter since then..and my hair is messed up, and my teeth are yellow :( im soo freaking out at the moment..i mean i dont wanna let my friends down..theyve gotten more popular since everyone is hanging out with them so they'll introduce them to me..
And imm not gonna be hot anymorwe :( they're gonna hate me, and im gonna hate myself. theres no way i can get hott in 2 weeks, or is there?
Ok, so in a year you have changed, and they don't know that. This has happened/will happen to almost everyone. At some point most people will get fatter or break out or loose an arm (ok maybe not that one) or change in some way. As much as you think that they will be judging you based only on how you look, its probably more your personality and how much fun they had with you that they remember. Think of the worst thing they could really say...Oh, she gained some weight....they won't talk about it for more than a second (most people are too concerned with themselves to worry about anyone else). Besides, being hot is an attitude. If you don't feel confident about your teeth then use whitening toothpaste, buy a cute new outfit that flatters you. If you go in there feeling (or even acting) confident about who you are, everyone will notice you as the cute, confident, fun loving hottie.
(Rating: 5) Thanx hun, ive been worrying alot about this, beacuse of you..im a little less stressed about it. It means alot, thx =)