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ok..I've known this guy for about 9 months. Ever since i met him, i've liked him a lot. when i told him i had feelings for him, we went out immediately. we were crazy about each other until another kid, *nick* started hanging out with me. i dumped the guy for *nick*, which i knew would be a huge mistake. the other guy was heartbroken, and to be honest i was too. i went out with *nick* for about 2 week then broke up with him because i still had really strong feelings for the other guy. so then me and the other guy went back out with each other for about 2 weeks total and then he broke up with me. He was the first guy i actually cried over. so now hes going out with another girl and i feel like a piece of crap because i still REALLY like him but i dont think he knows it. It's killing me how much i still like him and i've tried so hard to see other guys but NOTHINGS working..I REALLY NEED SOME HELP!!

First of all, that's how he felt probably when you dumped him first. But don't worry, I'm not going to be mean & lecture you. We all make mistakes & I'm here to help you out :). I would go up to him & tell him that the two of you really were meant to be together. If you can't talk to him in person, try doing it online or over the phone. Tell him the truth & be as gushy as possible. That way, he can really see the love you have for him. Guys like to feel needed so if you apologize for breaking his heart first & make it seem like a huge mistake then he'll feel that you really want to get back together. Good luck!

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(Rating: 4) i just cant tell him like that because for one-he'll go and tell his girlfriend and me and his gf are pretty good friends. two-im just not that gutsy to tell a guy ive liked forever that..he'll have the weirdest reaction ever!..you give wicked good advice tho..thx! keep it up!

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