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my best best best friend in the whole world since kindergarten is turning into a big JAP! she has so many fricken juicy hollister abercrombie etc clothes its soo annoying. we'll call her sally. so i'm not the most popular girl in the world but i'm not a complete loser. i'm a little ditzy and crazy and dorky but thats who i am. thats how all my firneds are. she doesnt seem to accept us though. all she cares about is being popular so she doesnt even say hi to us anymore. she doesnt care when we leave, and she follows her rly popular friends around. she doesnt hang out with me and my other friends anymore. its like she doesnt care that we exist. but shes so fun and nice when shes not busy being careful about being popular. i want her to be the same sally she used to be. over last summer, she started changing alot and getting much jappier. i didnt say anything--i didn't think it mattered. it's gone too far now-- what should i do?

Sorry this is happening to you. It happens to alot of people because others change & you can't control it. It's sad for girls to desperately want to be popular that they forget about their true friends but it happens. Let me tell you a secret about the in crowd. Whenever they take in "fresh meat", it never lasts for long. Unfortunately, you're going to have to make the decisian whether you want to accept your friend again once she comes crawling back to you. If I were you, I wouldn't. She's not a true friend & you deserve better than that. Show her that you don't need her & don't act needy at all. If you prove that life goes on without her than she'll start thinking about things more in depth when she realizes she's not needed. If you need any more help, let me know :).

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(Rating: 5) thank u sooo much shes probably not going to be popular because shes not very social shes rly quiet and shy and cautious and theyre not like that at all

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