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Hi! My name's Montana & welcome to my advice column. I'm 13 years old & I live in Florida. I'm a California native though & grew up in Beverly Hills so I'm very fashion savvy & into clothes. Even though I'm only 13, I've been through alot & would be happy to answer your question. Feel free to ask me anything, I would be happy to assist.

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Making The First Move

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I'd be happy to answer any question but my favorite categories are Love Life, Friendship & Random Weirdo's. I'm in theatre though so any questions you have about acting, agents, singing, dancing etc. I can also answer.
Website: My Xanga
Gender: Female
Location: USofA
Age: 13
Member Since: May 28, 2005
Answers: 5
Last Update: May 29, 2005
Visitors: 2123

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i cant cope. My mom use to be an alcoholic my dad use to beat my mom my mom us when she was drunk adn now i love to get drunk because ut gets rid of my troubles and i dont know where to start. I looked afta my sis and mbro when i was 9 and now my moms clean and moved out of my dads house i dont know where start i love my drink but dont want to go the same way as my mom. I hold a chip on my shoulder but dont quite know to who and dont know wot to do about it. Please please help. Vicki x _(link)

You've been through quite alot. I'm sorry but it's sounds like you've been brave through it all. My recomendation is to keep playing over and over again in your head the troubles your mom faced. This may kill you to think about at first but it will make you give up your drink. Think about your future & though a bit of alchohol may rid you of your troubles, they don't really go away, drinks just drown them temporarily. Try picking up a new hobby that you can drive your energy into. It will make your problems fade because your concentration is going into one thing. Also, some new positive friends will come in handy. Try getting involved with the community, it's a great way to make new friends who will be there for you. If you ever need anymore help, feel free to let me know, I'm always available.

xo♥ monty

thanks

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