My name is Vassalisa, I am a 26 year old woman, originally from St. Louis, MO, USA but I have been living in England for 4 years. I would love to answer any questions I can (and maybe get some answers too!) and will try to be honest and helpful!
I am into all sorts of music, I love history and I read Dear Abby religiously so would adore trying to walk in her shoes!
Gender: Female
Age: 26
Member Since: May 28, 2005
Answers: 34
Last Update: July 5, 2005
Visitors: 3214
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people out of no where have been calling my like fat whore and all this other stuff...and it really really hurts...im not a whore..and i am a little fat but compared to people in our school im an ok size...and all this just came out of no where...how can i make it stop...and please dont tell me to ignore it or it doesnt matter what people say..cause it does matter what people say and think and theres no possible way to ignore it (link)
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Extra: Thanks for the feedback. It sounds like you are pretty stuck. The best advice I can give you now is to try to make sure you seem really casual, like you dont care about them or what they say. Even make jokes about it or something. Try to let them see you're having fun. That way, if they start to see it isnt getting to you, they will lose interest. People like that dont normally have a problem finding other people to pick on.
You're right it does matter what people say, because it hurts. But as you cant force anyone to stop doing something, you have to try to deal with it yourself. Can you avoid being around the people who are calling you these names? Do you have any mutual friends who could talk to them and explain how painful it is for you? You dont say where this is happening... school?? Because if that's the case you can report it to someone as bullying.
I hope it stops soon!
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theres no possible for me to advoid them and all my friends are too scared to say anything...and yea i could report them for bullying but then they would just be more pissed at me and say more shit to me
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