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Hi! I'm Linda. I would love to try to help you with advice about love and life. I can also try to help with Health: Mental issues in particular.

However, you can ask me anything. I believe in the value of honesty and I will do my best to be ethical, fair and genuine. xoxoxoxo

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well there's these two guys at my church.1)Philip. 2)Sam. Well, first i liked sam, then philip, then sam, then philip then sam. I just kept going back and forth. Philip, he's extremely nice, but when he gets mad...it's just really scary. Sam, he's nice too, it's just that, he can be a jerk sometimes. Well...Philip likes my sister, and they went out. but my sister dumped him, and he's really sad. Sam, likes my cousin, but she doesn't like him at all. i just dont know who to like. They're always asking me for advice about my sister and my cousin cause im related to both of them. I help them the best i can...but they just don't seem to notice that i like them. help?

Dear circle,
First of all, I would dump the idea of both guys. You say that when Philip (who's extremely nice) gets mad that it's just really scary. That's not extremely nice. Forget this guy. And you say Sam, he's nice too, but he can be a jerk. That's not nice. Forget him too. I think you probably like them both because they are in your same circle, they go to your church, and they like other people, they are just familiar to you. Keep them as friends and forget about dating them. Trust me, when someone comes along that you REALLY like, you'll know it and not have any doubts. You probably aren't ready to get involved with either of these guys because you are going back and forth with them. And to YOU, THAT should be a red flag.
Good luck.
Linda

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(Rating: 5) thanx for the advice. it really helped.
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