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My friend Cindy, is kinda always the center of attention. well she don't get that much attention but... Ok! She sometimes asks me to come somewher with her and so i ask my mom and she said yes, so i go with her, she said we were going to her uncle's house who is a famous foot ball player. We were ther right so, an insy bit of her family is there, and some other people were there, so this 1 time music was playing and everyone wanted her to dance, and she all shy and said she din't want to. then all of a sudden she goes up ther and sart doing the chicken head dance.But my piont is, I don't want to go anywhere with her if she just going to end up every body pays attention here. Cindy also acts the same, thinking she the center of attention. But if she tells or writes me a note asking me if i want to go any where else with her,and some of her family, and her family's friends are there then what should I say? Right now I am almost close to not being her friend because I hate the way she act, Cause she also think she pretty and act like she....OOOOOOOOhhhhhh!!!! Ok I'm just saying she's REALLY starting to PISS me off right now.
Don't you think that you may be too over dramatic about your friend. Well, perhaps she likes attention because she doesn't receive much. Is that so bad for her? Is it healthy attention or is it completely just going to her head? If it's going to her head, then you really need to talk to her about it. Let me give you some advice about this. In friendships there are compromises of certain circumstances that vary of all kinds. But that is why you compromise . Deal with it. Support her. But if you really don't want to be the true friend , then don't waste your time with her. Like you sort of said, if she thinks the sun rises and sets when she says it does, then move onto another friend if you can't deal with it. I know that I sound harsh and everything but it is just being brutally honest .Try to savor the friendship. If that doesn't work out, then move on.
(Rating: 4) you don't understand, its not that she never recieve any. its that she its like she sorta has an ego problem. Never mind thank u 4 the advice. check ur rate.