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you probly think im being silly but im not its the truth and it really hurts, im just gonna come out and say it, my mum doesnt love me and im being serious she says she hates me but perhaps she doesnt she might like me but there is no mother love there she talks to my sisters mates more then she talks to me and when she does talk to me she just nags at me and yells i dont have any bond with her and it hurts me when i think about it i know she loves my sister cause she shows her love she buys her everything but that aint even the problem i mean i dont mind if she would rather spend her money on my sister its just that she never hugs me or helps me threw things when im upset when im ill i cry in my room on my own i wish it wasnt true i sometimes block it out and just say to myself that im being silly and its not true, but then some small little thing will triger it off again like it i see my mum hugging my sister or something like that my mum never takes me anywhere and she wil never talk to me about anything i feel alone even when im with a load of people i just feel alone inside all i want is my mum to show me some love sometimes to hugg me some days to hold my hand when im ill and to show me she is really my mum and not some stranger i no this sounds stupid and dont laff but sometimes i cry in my bed and put my arms around me and pretend it my mum telling me everything is alright :( i think its time i faced up to the truth
oh my god! Thats so sad! i have a tears in my eyes!!! I think your mom loves you. I think just cuz she wanted a girl kid and she gets along with your sister more because shes a girl too. but dont think your mother doesnt love you. there is no mother in the world who doesnt love all their kids. sometimes i feel the same way for a long time until my mom surprises me with some way of showing love. she loves you no matter what.
hope i helped
i'd be happy to answer anymore of your questions. im here to talk to. i'll always understand.
xoxo Julie
p.s.God loves you.
(Rating: 5) thanx but ive seen it on tv and everything where mums sit there and say they have no feelings for there kids and it makes me upset i feel as though she is ashamed of me or sumthink