Hm, I'm 14 and female, an artist, vegan, environmentalist, music obsessor, animal lover, attempted optimist, everyone's psychoanalyst, semi non-conformist, overthinker, idealist, believer, searcher of genuiness, I'm open minded, empathetic, and not quick to blame.
Website: deviantART
E-mail: opusthepenguin@care2.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA, USA
Age: 14
AIM: CelstialLooknGls
Member Since: April 6, 2005
Answers: 7
Last Update: May 18, 2005
Visitors: 949
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hey im one of those people who really likes helping other people, you know helping them with problems whether serious or not. well some times i get overwhlemed by all of their problems and i become depressed too. and sometimes it feels like they start to expect SO much out of me and i cant do everything...then we get into a fight! what should i doooooo??? (link)
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That's good that you like to help, I'm like that too. You have to try not to get absorbed in someone's problems though. Just do all you can and if it's really serious recommend them to a therapist or someone who can help better than you, because you can only help so much. Don't obsess over helping people, take a day off every now and then and just do something fun to take your mind off things, or talk about happy things with the same people sometimes. It also helps to write about it and keep in touch with people you worry about, just let them know you care.
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