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hey well i am having a problem. okay i dated this guy for four months and i really fell in love with him. at first it was great he was sweet but then we started having problemslike arguing and we would just fuss all the time well that was about last semester of school. this is our second semester anyways his name was andrew and i found out that he had some problems like mental. and i kept breaking up and going back with him on and off. well we broke up feb. 2 of this year and i then started dating this other guy for almost three months. i fell in love with him and he was the second person i ever loved, but andrew was the first. when andrew found out about me and jeremy he started making threats to him and saying all this stuff. well then i finally told andrew to stop and let me live my life. okay me and jeremy have been broke up for a month and a few days. i then have dated this guy michael whom i with now, well i dont care to much for him like everybody thinks. then today andrew's Best Friend who has grown up together came up to me and told me about andrew wanting me back i thought i was for sure over him but when he told me that all these feelings have come back and i am so confused on what to do. my friends say call him and see if he changed and the question is should i call him? and see if it is true? or should i write him well i am writing him now well plz help nikki (link)
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I think you should talk to him. See if he really still cares about and wants to get back together with you. If you really still have feelings for him then go for it. But you need to make a few things clear to him. It is not good for him to act the way he did and it is not healthy behavior. If you do end up getting back together with him then you need to talk to him about that. Tell him that it bothered you and that you don't want it to happen again. If he really cares about you then he won't do it again. You need to trust your feelings here. Only you know how you feel about him and when you come to terms with how you feel then you'll know what to do. If you care about him call him or write him a note or something like that. But if you dont' then you should tell him that you don't and make sure that he knows that.
Good luck and I hope it all works out
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well i called him last night and he said that he missed me and that he wants to see me and stuff like that this weekend. i told him i had a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but he told me that it wasnt the same. i haven't even talked to michael in three days and i dont know where he is. but andrew has changed a whole lot and this saturday i am going to his house and talking to him thank you for helping me out and i hope i can ask another question and stuff like that but andrew is coming back to school and we can finally be back together and i font think that we will break up b/c i think that we are meant for each other everyone told me we are so thanks again have a nice day
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