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Website: Demon Chaos
E-mail: helljinn2@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Navarre, FL
Occupation: United States Army 350th Civil Affairs Unit Pensacola, FL
Age: 18
AIM: Hell spawn corey
Yahoo: dark_teer_helljinn_spv
Member Since: May 11, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: May 16, 2005
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Just as a warning, this will be long. If you have a problem with that, skip on to the next question.
Okay. So my guy and I have been together about 18 months now, and it's been great up until awhile ago.
Now, my boyfriend and I used to have the exact same ideals about sex - we both thought oral was stupid and disgusting, and neither of us was really into the whole manual thing.
All of a sudden, he's asking me for oral all the time - I did that once and I told him I wasn't comfortable with it. He's even asking for "road head" which I always thought only assholes asked for and only sluts gave.
Does he think I'm a slut just because I've had sex?
I feel like he's been taking advantage of me lately and making me feel like a bad girlfriend. I know I'm not, though he makes me feel like it's my fault when we fight, and makes me feel like I'm the one that needs to change, when I believe now that it's him that needs to change.
I really do hope this is just a bump in the relationship - don't most people hit bumps when they've been together awhile?
We were such a great couple for so long, and then all of a sudden, he decided he wanted more sexual stuff than I'm willing and comfortable with giving him. Now, I can understand he may be a little sexually frustrated, as we haven't had sex in like a month, but I told him we'd have to wait a month (due to a medication I ended up on that conflicted with my birth control pill), and he was okay with it. Now he's suddenly not. I'm confused.
He used to be utterly romantic and sweet. Now he's turning into a complete ass.
I really want to ask him right now if he really loves me or he just enjoys fucking me. Recently, it seems like the latter.
We always said that sex was like the icing to a cake in this relationship. He claims this relationship is based on love, not lust, but I'm not so sure about that anymore.
I don't want to break up with him. I want him to realize what he's doing, and I want to fix this between us, hopefully before saturday. Saturday's his birthday, and I went to a lot of trouble to find him a present he wants this year. I'd rather not return it.
But mostly, I just want this to go back to normal. I was so happy with him before...
Help me out?
~Cali~ (link)
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Cali,
In honesty. I feel that you B/F just wants to experiment. I think that if he is experimenting then you should ask him to fulfill one of your fantasys. This will keep your sex life exciting. You should take turns doing each others fantasys. Once he gets used to doing his fantasys then he should start to settle down some. Unless he is a heartless person, you can probably let him know that you will not do it anymore and if he cares for you then he should respect your wishes.
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Rating: 5
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I didn't think of that. Problem is, I don't really have any fantasies. Sex does not envelop my whole brain the way it seems to his. Thanks. =)
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