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My name's lexxilu. I'm a really sweet girl, very driven, and lots of fun. I'm 15 and know a lot based on personal experience and by listening to others. Even if I can't give you solid advice, I can usually point you in the right direction. So, if you have any questions feel free to ask, I'm really open to anything!
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Here’s the thing I’ve never been kissed (15/f), but there’s a guy I like so if I get a chance to kiss him I want to really impress him. And I don’t really even know the basics. I know many people say it’s good to just “go with the flow” and that it will happen naturally, but I’ve also heard many people talking about their first kiss and how bad it was and everything and how the other person didn’t like it at all. And I know it will really mater to him, because he is really hot (can get any girl he wants, but is not a player) and is a perfectionist, so if it goes wrong I will make a really bad impression and might never get a second chance. Plus he is two years older so I suppose he’s had a lot of experience. I really need someone to walk me trough everything. I am going for something that includes a French kiss, a kiss that he will remember in a good way that will sweep him off his feet. (link)
There are a few key things to remember about kissing.
1. No one wants their face covered in drool. Keep it neat and tidy. Especially a first kiss.
2. Unlike movies always show, open mouths are annoying. Keep your mouth comfortably open, but don't have it open so much you're almost biting his nose.
3. A little tongue is nice, but be warned: tongue feels super weird at first. You kind of get used to it, but it's weird weird weird feeling.
4. A tiny nibble on his lower lip is really hot. Most guys like that a lot.
5. TILT YOUR HEAD. I know it sounds way cliched, but if you don't, you're in for an awkward kissing moment. Just slightly, you don't have to be looking at him sideways, but it's deffinitely a plus to not be slammed face to face.

And then, go with the flow. It's not that difficult. Everyone's different, everyone likes different things, he may have a few tricks up his sleeve. And if he does, learn from them. A first kiss is really an educational thing. You learn a lot about what you like from it.

Hope I helped!


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