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Age: 18
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Im a 14 year old girl and last year, my cousin broght his best friend to one of my family pool partys. My cousins a year younger than me, but his friend/neighbor was my age. We talked all night and had a great time. We hung out other times too and became best friends. We've been going out for 9 monthes now but my cousin HATES it! At first he was makin fun of us, but he's been trying to break us up ever since. I'm not trying to take my bf away from my cousin, but my cousin thinks i am. I love my bf soo much and i want to spend as much time with him as i can, but i do let them hang out alone sometimes. My bf is getting kinda pissed at my cuz and he'd rather b with my sometimes, but my cuz is soo pissed and he like treats my bf like shit when hes soo nice to him. My cousin thinks i treat him bad, by going out with his friend and it really upsets me, is there anything i can do? Thanks! (link)
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Talk to your cousin. Ask him why he's being such an ass about this. He needs to know that you love your bf and that he loves you and that neither of you have a problem with that fact that your bf is friends with your cousin. He needs to know that you don't care if they spend time together and that you understand that sometimes they want to hang out without you around. He also needs to know what your bf thinks of this. If he continues to treat your bf like shit and acts like an ass then he won't want to hang out with him. You are not doing anything by going out with his friend. You're not keeping them from being friends you give them time to hang out without you around so you are doing absolutely nothing wrong. Talk to your cousin and have your bf do it too.
Good luck and I hope things work out.
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Thanks, it really helps to hear im not doing anything wrong cuz he tells me i am.
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