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okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!
Pause for a moment and ask yourself: what do I want in a man? These can be qualities, attitude, or any other thing that you find in your "dream guy" or a guy that you prefer . Have you thought about it. Think about it for a few seconds longer. Done. Okay. Now think: who has more in common with my "dream guy" ? When you are thinking about this, you need to think which one am I the most comfortable with . Who do I feel safe around? WHICH ONE WOULDN'T USE ME AS A REBOUND WHEN THEY'RE THROUGH WITH ME? Which one can I trust ? Think about questions like this and whatever question or issue that comes to your mind afterwards, try to the best of your abilities to answer them. Once you've done that, then maybe you'll have a better clue to WHAT YOU WANT AND WHO CAN GIVE THAT TO YOU. Just think about it. And don't stress yourself. You aren't getting married honey. Hope I was some help. Have a lovely day.
(Rating: 5) hey thanks!!! great advice!!!