my name is vanessa williams
and i want anyone who has any problems, feel free to ask for advice, i am non judgemental, listen and give you good advice, not what you want to hear but the right advice
take care and God bless
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Last Update: September 23, 2005
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Okay, so there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a long time. Last October, I got a crush on him. Then in December, he had a girlfriend, but he told me that he'd liked me since October too, and a week later, he broke up with his girlfriend. But he didn't ask me out until a month later, because he 'didn't want people to think he liked me when he liked his other girlfriend'. So we were 'sort of' going out for about a month, but we never actually went on a date. He asked me out to a carnival, but then he ditched me. Then...worst of all...the school dance. He danced with me once, and then went back to his ex girlfriend and was dancing with HER for the rest of the time. I talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore, but we decided to stay friends anyways.
Now, about 3 months later...I think I still like him, but I'm not sure. We're still very good friends. I want him to be happy with whatever girl he goes out with, but I'm jealous at the same time. My heart jumps when I had to kiss him on the cheek for this school performance..and when I fell asleep on his shoulder in the movie theater (with other friends there)...and I feel crap when I see the girl he likes sleeping on his other shoulder, or sitting super close to him. What should I do? How do I get over him? Please help! (link)
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hi there , i think these feeling are really confused, first of all was he the one that revealed his feeling for you or maybe he didnt want to hurt your feeling, but i think you got hurt anyway
i think what you are doing is very good, because from what you wrote ou are not trying to break them up, it shows that you truly love him and that you are a great friend because you love him enough to be happy with the next girl, not persistent on two of you being together , maybe he isnt ready for a staedy relationship because he might be scared that he'll end up hurting you and you two wouldnt speak together
ii believe that you truly love him, i don't know about any way you can get over someone, just give it time and i know that its not easy
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