Courtney's advice column

What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.

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i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it

please help

Probably because she sees it as the same reason you see it. She's not actually being herself because she is trying to be the image of you. She wanted him, and she got him, and she didn't want to tell you probably because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. Yes, that is respectable but the majority of a friendship is based upon honesty. Your friend either didn't ask you how you feel because:

A) she doesn't care= does she normally do things like this
b) she's just a too caring person that didn't want you to get hurt.

Let me give you a bit of seperate advice. A friend that " found out that I like him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true" is not a real friend. And a friend that "trying to be his perfect image is me" shows that she needs help on identity issues . Hope I was some help

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