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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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There is this guy i like. lets call him k. but like 5 other girls do too. But this might sound like something everyone would say, but i've liked k the longest. one of my friends, lets call her r, who also likes k started liking him after me and when k found out we both liked him, he told my other friend, s, he liked both of us back. now that was a while ago. then r, went out with someone totally different, we'll call him a. but then a broke up with r like 2 weeks later and r started liking k again. now all this time, i've liked k. NOW, my other friend, L, likes k also!!! but i've talked to both of them and my friend r says that even though she likes k, she knows how much i do and that i could have him. i guess. then L told me that she knows how long i've liked k and that she knows how it feels to not get the one that you want and to watch someone else have him. (thats a different story). but then if i get k, i'll feel really bad for all the others who like him, even though i've been waiting forever to have him, even before i knew anyone else liked him. please help. i dont know what to do.
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I was in the very same predicament . I, unlike you, never told this guy that I liked him . And I knew that he liked me b/c it was the look in his eyes whenever he saw me . I didn't risk that hurt for my friends, for my life, and everything else to be with him . I made a major mistake and I hope you won't do the same . Everytime I see him and everytime I think of him, I think of what I could've had and it causes me insecurities . It causes me to be less content . You'll always be in doubt about it . You'll say we could've, we should've, and everything else . You'll always remain curious . If your friends say that it is alright, then you should really go for it . Don't miss out on the opportunity . I'm in despair and at least you really know that he likes you . Try . Try ...and even if he rejects you, at least you can live with yourself knowing that you did try . And basically it's his loss . So live on and learn from my mistake . Try please try and let me know how it goes. Good luck and really let me know how it goes . I'm Courtney by the way and just Courtney . See yah .
(Rating: 5) thank you so much for the advice. it really does mean a lot that you care that much. but he asked out another girl today on 5/4/05, so i've sorta given up on him. i decided to name my fish his name and then starve it ;-). thanx so much
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