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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.

i go through the same thing and i'm as happy as can ever be.. it's just so much stress! even people who others think are perfect have their own problems. you can't help feeling empty but you can't put yourself down. cutting and snapping is hard to stop but it's possible. you should start by not doing those things anymore! it just piles up depression and makes you feel a billion times worse afterwards (it may make you feel relieved in the moment, but it only makes things worse later on). if you need help with quiting, you NEED to get help. you should see a counselor or talk to your parents or your bf! you should be able to trust your bf and since he cares about you, he should be willing to help. do things that make you feel better and be more social. don't stay at home during the weekends, go out for a walk or hang out with your friends. do things that will keep your mind off of bad things, and it'll become a habbit! if you ever need someone to talk to, you can always im me because i definately know where you're coming from!

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