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i've only known my friend since this year and we became really good friends but i think shes been a terrible friend lately.If I tell her something she said she goes off saying 'omg! you're putting words in my mouth!' when other people were there to hear her say what i told her she said.i do so much stuff for her and still shes mean.i put my hair in a parted ponytail and she's like, 'i see you tried my hairstyle' i got so annoyed when she said that because why would i want to be like her! she thinks im competing with her too because i've been doing my hair nicer.I told her my parents were looking to move and she gets all pissed saying'you promised you were going to the same high school as me!' instead of getting mad wouldnt a real friend be sad?If I have a pimple she points it out like I don't already know.It seems like she goes out of her way to make me feel bad.This has just been building up and I'm tired of her and her drama. I just need some advice this girl thinks she's god and has all the answers, but I think it's all in her head.Help?!
should we still be friends?If so, how can I change her for the better? (link)
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You can't change her. And she is obviously not a very good friend. I really don't think you should be friends with her anymore. Your friends are supposed to help you, be nice to you, and be there for you. From your description it seems like she isn't of those things. She is not a very good friend and if it was me I wouldn't deal with it. The next time she says something to you that seems like she's being a bitch then tell her how you feel. Just say look I'm really sick of the way you've been treating me and if you're going to continue to do it then I'm not going to hang out with you anymore. If she changes then that's great and if not then oh well you don't need to be around people who treat you like that.
Good luck
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