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hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.

but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.

i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.

it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.

please help...

You need to tell somone that is grown . Maybe his parents, your parents, the guidance counselor at school because this guy needs help . You need to tell someone how you really feel about him , and that he is trying to kill himself . He needs probably scicological help . But you need to tell someone because this guy just isn't the one you fell in love with and if you want to leave him then that opportunity should always be available to you . Tell...someone because you might just save his life . You know, this might just be a trick to keep you with him . I know that you've thought of this , so I'll lay off that prospect .
If you don't want him to leave and you want him to treat you right, then tell him what he is doing . Try to make him care. If he doesn't then you have to leave him . You have to move on and it's not going to be easy . You'll remember it and you should think of it as another hard lesson learned . Pity him but don't hate him . It's who he is and you can't change that . Even though you may want to believe he can change : maybe he can . But for now, follow your heart .

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(Rating: 5) thanks for the help
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