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Although I am only 18 I have been through more than most adults have. If you have any questions about drugs, suicide, or family problems then I can help you out a lot. I've had to deal with all of that and I want to try and help people before they get as involved in it as I was. I will try to understand your situation the best that I can and give the best advice that I can. So ask me anything and I will answer you.
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ok well my dad is an alcholic and he drinks like every night and like a month ago he got pulled over for drunk driving he is in jail now and gets out in a few monthes! but before he went in he would always hit me and my family (not my mom tho)!! it gets me upset and dont no what to do!! and he only hits us when he isnt drunk so its either hes drunk or really mean does ne one no n e thing i can do w/o my mom knowing cuz she would freak if she found out that i tell ppl!! ~kel (link)
I know what you're going through. When I lived with my father he used to be drunk all the time and he would constantly hit me. My mom wanted to keep it all a big secret but eventually I realized that isn't a good thing. If your father is hitting you then it needs to stop you need to get some help. He has no right to hit you. If he doesn't hit your mom then she probably doesn't fully understand what you're going through. The first thing you should do is talk to her and tell her how you feel about your dad. If you don't get him to stop hitting you then it could get really serious and you could end up in the hospital. My little sister died because my dad hit her too much and too hard. You don't want that to happen to you. If your mom won't do anything about it and he keeps hitting you then you need to tell someone whether it be a school counselor, an adult that you trust or even the police it's dangerous for him to keep acting this way and you need to get out of that situation as soon as possible.

I hope that I helped you and good luck


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thank you so much for your help!!




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