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hey. im kayla and im 17 years old from a small town in new jersey. ive been through a lot and i love to help people aw well as get advice from others. let me know if you have any questionss.

Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
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Age: 17
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Well lets see where do i start.. My mom and step dad got in a fight yesterday over my step dad not going places with her *like movies,out to eat,work out..* well anyways after a couple hours of all this my step dad left to go to work.. so then a little bit later my mom called me down stairs and was like you better end your relationship with your boyfriend soon cause he'll get you to where you dont wanna leave him *he already does* adn then he'll hurt you and he wont want to do anything with you anymore.. well then it turned into a big arguement with me and my mom she never exactly met my boyfriend *we been together almost a year.. and she thinks she knows this boy and thinks he's a complete asshole like my step dad is to her.. well anyways i said shit like that to her.. and she said okay whatever you'll see then... Well later on that night i was talkin to my boyfriend and then i started think bout what my mom said * i know i shouldnt let that shit get to me* but it bothered me and i brought it up to my boyfriend and he got mad and i hung up on him... then he texted me and said *baby im so sorry i love you, and that he dont want my mom interfering with our relationship..cause im the only person who he needs in his life cause im always there for him through anything..* Aww isnt it sweet well him and me are cool... but what should i say to my mom so this dont happen again...? (link)
I understand that your mom doesnt want you to get hurt but you really need to tell her that, its already reached the point that you dont want to leave him and that you would be soo miserable without him. Your boyfriend does seem like a really sweet guy. If your close ENOUGH with your step dad try talking to him about why he wont go out with your mom. Tell him taht it really upsets the both of you and that its makes her not feel as close to him. Make him give you a reason why he wont go out with her, even though i cant think of ONE. Good Luck.. hope i helped!


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Thanks but me and my step dad dont get along i cant stand him.. but she'kll eventually get in his head.. much luv x0x0




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