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Ok everyone lets keep this simple. My name is Chris, I am an 18 year old guy. I am also a senior in HS. I am a good listener and even better at giving advice because I have had to deal with a lot of adversity. Anyway, so here is my advice column...

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One of my old friends' never talked about guys. Like, we would be on the fone, and i would be talking about the guy i liked, and shed kinda just, "push away" the subject. She always said she never likes anyone, and she dosent think that anyone is "cute" or "Hot". I think thats kind of weird. Then one day, we were talking online, and she told me she was a lesbian. It was really awkward, and i really started to believe her, and then when i saw her the next day at school, she was like "omg that was hilarous last night! i was joking!"....I dont know but this kind of looks strange to me..Any ideas on why she might not like to talk about guys? oh by the way..i dont want to talk or ask her about this. thanks!

This must be a very touchy thing for you to deal with. I can understand why you would be stuck. I don't want to jump to conclusions but I think she probably is a lesbian. She probably told you (and maybe others) online that she was and got the wrong reaction from other people so she wanted to cover her tracks and recanted it all as a joke. I think the best thing for you to do is to take it like she said, "as it was just a joke". Don't try to pry it open or go accusing her or anything like that. Just let it pass for now and try to let her know that you are her friend no matter what. Eventually, if she is a lesbian it will come out and you need to be there for her as a friend. Good luck.

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