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Ok everyone lets keep this simple. My name is Chris, I am an 18 year old guy. I am also a senior in HS. I am a good listener and even better at giving advice because I have had to deal with a lot of adversity. Anyway, so here is my advice column...

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(13/f)
I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do?

Your not being shallow hun, its a perfectly reasonable thing to be concerned about. But if your friends are going to diss you for being friends with someone who you think is nice and a good person just because she isn't popular. Well then that means they aren't your true friends. True friends don't diss other friends (no matter who the other friend is friends with.) Am I confusing you? I am confusing myself. What I mean is.. Be friends with this girl, and if your other friends are shallow jerks and diss you then you just dismiss them. I will be willing to bet a good amount of money that this girl who isn't popular will make a better friend then those other girls would be if they are that shallow. Good luck! Keep me posted about this, and if you need to chat feel free to AIM me. :)

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(Rating: 5) thx 4 ur help!
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