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me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago and hes already talking to a few new girls. people warned me that he was like this before i went out with him. i had been "talking" with him since december and we finally started going out in march. he got mad at me over something really small so now he "hates" me but the thing is yesterday he called me to hang out..i was really confused and when i tryed talking to him later that night he was like fuck you im busy talking to my girlfriend. i still like him alot i had so much fun with him. hes a really great guy but i dont know what to do... hes really hard to get over. what should i do?!?

First off: boys are confusing and their game of choice is 'mixed signals'. Girls confuse them and they love taking the chance to confuse us right back.

It sounds like he's bitter about you two breaking up. Whether or not he broke up with you isn't important. Sometimes people do things they regret and they try to blame anyone but themselves.

All I can say is that you should give him some time to cool off and then let him know you'd still like to be friends. Be as nice and as friendly about it as possible and try to put your feelings for him aside. If he's over you, the two of you aren't meant to be and, eventually, you will get over him. Yes, it will be hard and it will take a long time but I promise you will. And I speak from experience when I say that.

Just know that young love is fickle. You'll find someone else who'll make this guy look like nothing. :)

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