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This may sound wierd but im friends with this guy i met maybe 3 weeks ago at a teen dance club im 17 hes 19, i bearly know him and i dont know what makes me feel so much like i need to help him but its killing me that i cant come up with my own solution.

This kid was recently kicked out of his house where he lived with his father and step mother, and that may possibly be a good thing. his father was abusive and it wasnt a good living situation. the last few days hes either been sleeping in his car or finding people to stay with. What hes planning on doing in 11 days is moving back to texas (from new york) and back in with his biological mother who hasnt seen him in forever and who hes only been talking to for 2 weeks. All his friends and his life is here though and hes not even sure if texas is going to work out for him.

i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of things he can do. chances he has of staying here. He did graduate highschool etc and is really a nice guy though obviously he has his issues. This is a last resort for me. idk if theres people i can talk to or what i just need someones advice on this

thanks

If he has any money, suggest maybe a hotel for now, till he decides he wants to move to Texas. Maybe his mother can send some sort of fast money and pay for the hotel stay? Like credit card type pay, till he wants to go to Texas. Maybe help him find a low rent apartment? Try going to a homeless shelter or a church and ask them if they have any suggestions of where he should go. Hope I helped

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(Rating: 4) thanks alot for this advice. I hadnt thought about suggesting he ask his mother for money. She is his biological mother after all and may be willing to help. As for going to a church or something its something i may consider if its a last resort. I dont think he would like the idea very much since hes the type who seems to think he has to do everything himself
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