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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????

Please help me?????

19...Female

No way! No obsession! That's why she's your best friend... because you need her. Maybe even you see her as more than a best friend more like a sister... that's how I see my best friend. Best friends are someone that you can depend on no matter what and someone you can always feel comfertable with. You wanting to know what your best friend thinks about things is what most girls do anyway... I know I do at least. You and her are obviously close and that's a great thing! As for worrying about wheather or not she'll be there when you wake up.. stop worrying. I bet she feels the exact same way as you do about her. And if she does, then she'll never leave you.. Never!
Hope I was of some assistance,
~*ash

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(Rating: 5) thanks, that was great advice! you really helped
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