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ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it?
Hmmm, I get the feeling that I'll be answering this question a lot during my time here. First off, only you can decide whether to break it off with him. In most cases unless your date is abusive or simply a complete idiot a month usually isn't long enough to tell whether or not a relationship will work.
In your position I might discuss with him the issues that are threatening our relationship and give it another month as we both work to resolve those issues before making a final decision.
However, if you have your heart set on breaking up with him, I always say, don't do it all at once. It may sound silly, but the example I give is this: When you were a kid and your ice cream cone started to melt you would do your best to catch what you could in your hands. On the other hand, if the bottom fell out of your ice cream cone all at once, all you got was ice cream splattered all over your shoes. Your relationship is like that too. Give him a chance to be ready to be dumped. Talk to him about these issues first and even have an argument if so moved; that way the dumping won't be such a complete surprise to him.
After all, how would you feel in his position? How would you want to be treated? As a final thought, if you dump him any time soon, give him back those earings, because those sound expensive.
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we broke up monday thanks!
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