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Ok well there is this girl that i go to gymnastics with and she has been coming to gym with bruises and marks all over her legs. I've asked her many times to tell me what happend and she told me 'nothing!' and i keep asking her the same question and even the coaches ask her and one time the coach asked her if she fell and she said 'yes' but then she told me she lied to him! I think her parents might have abused her because shes very quiet and timid and if u tell her not 2 tell anyone, SHE WONT!(even my dad thinks so) I'm really scared for her so please help! How can i make her tell me the truth? (link)
The best thing to do would be to inform a social worker at the school. Its good to keep your friends secrets but when their health is on the line you need to be there for them and speak out to someone who can do something about the situation.

The social worker/guidance counselor/or a teacher you get along with well .... Will most likely confront her and hopefully get her help.

I can speak from experience, being abused isn't something that is fun. It needs to stop. Be the friend she will love forever even if she hates you in the begining.


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I would like to tell someone, but i just can't, that would ruin her family and their friendship toward me and my family, But thanx for trying to help!




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