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This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.

Btw, I'm 14/f

*jEsS*

Ok, yes! guys usually get an erection (AKA: hard-on, boner, stiffy, woody) when they get aroused, but sometimes they get an erection for no reason at all. (I like to call that spontaneous wood). Truth of the matter is that he may or may not have had his erection because you turned him on or "aroused" him. Maybe he was picturing you naked in his mind, or maybe he had his "boner" before you even talked to him. Whatever the reason is, don't feel offended about his erection. If you turned him on, think of it as a complement. That you are sexy enough to get him "aroused". Unless he is putting you into a very uncomfortable situation, just ignore it. Understand that he is growing up also and his body is changing and "uncontrolable" things happen. His hard-on is not gross, it is part of human anatomy, when you get older, you'll appreciate it, trust me!! Have Fun!!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for giving such a great answer. You give the best advice. Thanks again ♥
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